Me : Carla Jane Stevens (1998)

Dad Please Come Back !

My Dad (1997)

Clarence John Tolley (Carl for Short !).

Born : 26th May 1938. Birmingham. England. U.K.

On 5th January 1998 my Dad left home whilst my Mum and I were out visiting a sick friend. We came back to find no note and the Christmas Cards which we had lovingly written to my Dad, in the kitchen refuse bin. This hurt us terribly.

Since then I have not seen my Dad and he has not phoned to see how I am, or sent me a card at Birthday's or a Christmas Card at Christmas and I feel that he has rejected me and Mum says I didn't do anything wrong.

I miss my Dad terribly and I know that my Mum does too, and we wish that he would come back to us.

My Mum received a nasty letter from a lady called Pauline, whom it appears, he left us for, the letter was postmarked 11th February 1998 Australia. It stated that my Dad and Pauline were married in Australia shortly after his arrival over there and that if my Mum tried to contact my Dad again, that quote : "Serious legal repercussions would ensue". My Mum and I cried a lot when we got this. Pauline's surname before she married my Dad was "Villers", she was a Widow, before she married my Dad. Pauline's maiden name was "Price" Pauline owns a static caravan on Unity Farm, Weston Super Mere, England. U.K.

In June 1998 my Mum and I sent my Dad some lovely and very expensive Fathers Day Cards, which took me ages to write, nice and neatly, but in spite of my Mum sending these to him by recorded delivery, they were returned to us and when the postman gave me the package with them in, on a Saturday morning, a week after we sent them, I cried a lot and so did Mum, it really upset us. My Mum phoned the Mail Sorting Office in Great Barr, Birmingham, England, U.K. (the office local to my Dad) and asked why they were returned and the postmaster told my Mum that a very nasty old lady had said to him "If those are what we think they are you can take the damned things back, we don't want them". We believe that the said lady was Pauline, from the description the postmaster gave my Mum.

On 25th February 1999, My Mum received a copy of a marriage certificate stating that my Dad and Pauline were married on my 8th birthday which was 6th June 1998, in The Broad Street Register Office, Birmingham, England. United Kingdom. Again my Mum and I got very upset, we both still love my Dad very very much and still want him back with us.

Many psychic people have told my Mum that my Dad is not happy with Pauline and that it is only his pride which is stopping him from coming back to us.

My Dad moved in with Pauline in a house that she owned in Birmingham, when he left us, and this is the last known address we have for him which is :

89, Booths Farm Road, Great Barr, Birmingham, England. U.K. B42 2NR.

My Dad has two close relatives by the name of Ann & Mike Dixon who were last known to be living at :

115, Marston Road, Stafford, Staffordshire. England. UK. ST16. 3BX

Mike Dixon was last known to be working for the Arriva Bus Company in Stafford, Staffordshire and Ann Dixon was last known to be working in a shop in Stafford. Staffordshire.

Below is a photo of My Dad, and Ann & Mike Dixon (1991)

Do you live in Birmingham, England. U.K. ? Do you know of anyone who lives in Birmingham. England. U.K. ? If so do you think you could help me to get my Dad back ? Or if you see him could you tell him that I still love him and so does my Mum please?

My Mum is afraid to write to My Dad because of the nasty letter that Pauline sent us and because Mum had a heart attack not long after my Dad left and has had a few bad Angina (Heart) attacks since the big heart attack she had just after Dad left, and the Doctor told her that she must avoid all forms of Emotional Stress, or risk another big Heart Attack and I don't want this to happen as then I won't have a Mum or a Dad and I will only have my Grandma and Pops then. My Grandma and Pops are 70 this year and I might not be allowed to go to them because they are old now. I am worried about what will happen to me if I lose my Mum too.

In 1998 Pauline changed the phone number to an Ex-directory phone number so that we could not phone Dad and Ann & Mike changed theirs later in 1998 to an Ex directory phone number and so we cannot phone them, and the last time my Mum was able to phone Ann & Mike they said they were trying to move to Colwyn Bay in North Wales. U.K. We don't know if they have moved or not.

My Dad also has a heart condition and Mum and I are fearful that we will never see my Dad alive again if only just to have him make his peace with us and for us to see him at least once more. My Dad will have been 62 on 26th May 2000.

My Mum tells me that she has forgiven my Dad for hurting us, and that she still loves him as deeply as ever and I do too, we miss him very very much and my Mum would love to have married my Dad, but sadly he wanted to marry Pauline instead.

So if you ever see my Dad or know of him or anyone who knows of him please tell him from Me and my Mum to please please please come back and that we still love him and want him back if only just to see him one more time. Mum and I are very close and we have a great time together and Mum makes sure I am well looked after but we would like to be a real family again.

Mum and I would at least like to see Dad one more time, if only so that we can say goodbye to him properly, Dad left without saying a proper goodbye to me, and I wonder if he left because I did something wrong. Mum says I didn't but if I didn't why doesn't my Dad love me anymore? Even if Dad can't come back Mum and I would like to have a chance to make peace with Dad and so that things can be ended nicer. I lie awake at night wishing to see Dad one more time and to be able to tell him that I love him, and so would Mum, My Mum hasn't been the same since Dad left, she gets upset when she thinks about how he left us, and so do I. But we don't want Dad to think we don't love him, because we do. Can anyone help My Mum and Me? I wish Dad would see this page and contact us, but he may not have a computer or know that this page is here. The libraries have computers in them and people can go on the Internet free in the library if they don't have a computer. If only my Dad knew about this page and the one on my Mum's website which is mentioned below.

Thank You For Any Help You Can Give To Help Bring My Dad Back.

Lots of Love

Carla

XXX

I Love You Dad......Please Let me talk to you one more time.


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